This is a hard one. At some point in life we will be disappointed – maybe by a person or by life itself and how things are going for us at the time. The problem with this feeling of “disappointment” is that it keeps us stuck in thinking and worrying and does not allow us to move forward and take actions to correct whatever issues there are in our life. Sometimes our mind and our feelings can literally lead to the body feeling stuck, sluggish or even ill.

One way that people get “stuck” and feel disappointed in life is by comparing themselves and their life to others. Comparison sets us up for jealousy and resentment. The truth is, there is always someone with MORE and someone with LESS. It’s just a fact of life we all have to accept. It doesn’t matter if an old flame has this or that, or an old school mate or your co-worker. Every person on Earth has a unique purpose and life plan and their own unique talents and life history. It is impossible to speculate why you have to go through hard times or why you haven’t found what you think you deserve in your life, but, it is important to believe that there is a purpose for your learning and your spirit in everything that you go through.

Your job is to keep moving forward. To dream a new dream when needed. To get the most out of every moment, every situation (whether it looks good or terrible at the time) and to learn to find some moment of learning, love and joy no matter what circumstance surrounds you.

The Trivedi Effect

The Trivedi Effect is a wonderful energy that can be used to help you overcome setbacks and challenges in life. If can help you persevere through the “in between” times and help you get unstuck! Blessings using the Trivedi Effect energy are designed to connect and strengthen your connection with God and the Divine. The Trivedi Effect energy has the power to reignite and strengthen your soul deep purpose and reconfigure your spirit back to its original blueprint. This can help you begin to release the disappointments you may harbor toward people, relationships or life itself and begin to move forward into a promising future once again.

Working with Shirley

To work with Shirley Holmlund on getting unstuck and getting over setbacks and disappointments in life, please email her at to set up an appointment.