Mediocrity is easy … if you are lucky enough to have a way to support yourself, a home, friends and family… things you enjoy in life … Even though everyone has struggles, we all know some are not “bad” enough or harsh enough to really force you to change or to push for anything more in life.
Everyone has a “dream” they tell people about … It often starts with “Someday, I’ll …” but the thing is, almost no one actually takes the steps day in and day out to reach those “dreams.” Actually, when people actively go after their dreams, lots of people find this threatening and will try to sabotage them. Why? Because seeing someone go after their dreams and even begin to succeed threatens their sense of self since they don’t want to face that they are CHOOSING not to go after their own “dreams.”

Ask yourself, are you acting like settling for “Just OK” is easier and far less risky than going after what you really want? What if we really achieved those dreams? Then what? We might have to find a new dream, or feel better about ourselves or accept that we are capable of and responsible for more than we thought, more than others thought …

And then people might have EXPECTATIONS or put demands on us, because there would be proof we are capable!

Giving up Mediocrity Isn’t Easy!

Just settling is easy. We get to stay in our comfort zone, happy-ish but never really fulfilled. Moving out of our comfort zone feels hard. It’s scary. But, if you take the steps to really go after your dreams. To decide today to pick the thing that you’ve always wanted but never let yourself really go after and step up and give 110% to getting it – those successes are the real secret to happiness and fulfillment. But, most will never take the risk. They won’t even try!

Sometimes you have to break out of fear-based beliefs in order to find what you’ve been searching for your whole life. It is hard to do it alone, getting a coach to support you can be the perfect answer, especially if you aren’t ready to share with family and friends or they don’t support you going after your dreams.

The Trivedi Effect

The Trivedi Effect is a wonderful energy that can be used to help you overcome fear and take on new challenges in life. If can help you perseveres through the fear and change and allow you to enjoy watching what was once a dream for your life, become your reality! Blessings using the Trivedi Effect energy are designed to connect and strengthen your connection with God and the Divine. The Trivedi Effect energy has the power to reignite and strengthen your soul deep purpose and reconfigure your spirit back to its original blueprint.

Working with Shirley

To work with Shirley Holmlund on creating a wonderful life full of going after your dreams, please email her at to set up an appointment.